A small, seductive detail that drives me wild.
When you are in the arms of someone you trust…someone who makes your soul flutter; there are certain things that drive you beyond erotic reason. Things that he (or she) does that are seemingly so small, or such a granular part of an enormous process that it may escape the proper attention it deserves. Here is one such element.
CHECKING? WHAT THE EFF IS THAT?
I don’t know how everyone plays, and what little things really do it for everyone. When I am getting a good girl spanking, or a playful naughty spanking, or the kind that is playful, but serious, chances are I am going to get hot and bothered. Like, a 100% chance. But, good spankings hurt and I do like to play a little bit of Damsel in Distress. A naughty girl should never love her chastisement!?! Right? Wrong.
Most submissive women are aroused by the acts of submission. Use this as a great basis for baiting your lovely, submissive prey. She knows she is wet. You know she is wet. I know cheesecake tastes good, but I always like to be 100% sure.
Imagine…you walk up behind her pert ass sticking up high in the air. Or perhaps she stands seductively, bound at the wrists and ankles and you walk up behind her and cup her breast and whisper in her ear. Whispering in her ear is its own sexy little thing, but, I can’t get distracted.
You say something to the effect of, “Well, we better check to see if your naughty little pussy is wet,” or, “Oh…did that spanking/flogging/paddling get you all wet & excited? Let’s just check and see!” Then seductively slide your fingertip/s between her legs and over her slit, dipping in just enough to feel the silky, creamy arousal that your dominance invoked.
Slowly, slide your fingers back out and whisper in her ear, “Oh…you are soaking wet. That’s a good girl. I love it when your pussy (or whatever delightful term does it for you) gets so wet for me.”
On the converse, maybe she loves a little shame and playful humiliation. Something like, “Uh-oh. Your naughty little pussy got soaking wet from that spanking! Now I’m going to have to really punish you!”
OR – there is always the taboo and yet infamously arousing chef trick. You say, “Your hot little pussy got very wet from that spanking. See it?” Show her the glistening arousal on your fingertip and make her respond… “Yes, Sir.”
Look back at your fingertip. “Yes, I made it. It looks sweet, delicious. I think you should taste it.” Before you even finish that sentence your fingertips will hopefully have made their way into her eager, salivating mouth that is always anxious to please her Master. Feeling the soft swirl of her tongue on your fingertips as she tastes her own arousal will serve to remind you both that your cock will soon take the place of your fingers.
Now is a great time to resume the spanking…or gently force her to her knees to start adoring your cock.
Another fine scenario…She’s cooking dinner in a dress or skirt. You walk up behind her and put your arm around her middle in between her chest and stomach. This makes it easy for your arm to rise between her breasts for fondling. Perhaps run your hand up to her throat so you can bend her neck back as you speak and touch; make her feel the full force of your dominance. From the front or back (switch it up!) use your other hand to part her legs, slowly working your way into probing deeper while you say softly, “Time for me to check to see if that hot little pussy is dripping wet like I think it is.” At this point, it probably will be. Take it from there. Is she naughty for being wet? Or is she a good, good girl for having become aroused so quickly in your presence? Either way, tell her. Then take her. Or – make her wait. Sometimes the best aphrodisiac!
If she is not dripping wet with anticipation, say something like, “Hmmm, you’re not wet yet. I’m surprised because I know your little pussy is almost always begging for attention. I will be back in 2 minutes. If you still aren’t wet, I will spank you. I know that by the time your ass is bright red, you’ll be soaking wet.”
Just some ideas and a window into some things that turn me on.
By the way, submissives crave your loving dominance; physically and psychologically. Use them together at the same time? Watch out. 😉